It's been a long while since I've written. Mostly because I post everything on Facebook. Do people even read blogs still!?
If you know me at all, you know that I love to have things to look forward to. Day to day life can be mundane, and just feel like I'm trudging along. When I know I have events coming up it gives me something to get excited about.
It's looking like the rest of the year is going to be great!
In August, the boys and I are heading back to Iowa for a week. While we're there we're going to go to the Balloon Glow. Mom and I are going to the Iowa State Fair to see Reba McEntire too! 19 years ago, she and I went and saw her, and I've always wanted to see her again. My dad will watch the boys and we'll spend the night in Des Moines...kid free!
A couple of weeks later, I get to see one of my favorite comedians, John Crist with some friends from church.
In September, Jacob and I get to take Daniel to a Cardinals autograph party. He's a part of the Cardinals Kids Club, and will get to meet some players and I'm sure do other fun things. Then we'll spend the afternoon in St Louis doing something, and then go back to Busch that night for the game. He has been so excited about it, and I'm looking forward to getting to give him some quality time with both of us.
October...well, you know. It's my FAVORITE month of the year. You just can't bring me down in October. Bring on the pumpkin patches! We'll probably end up going to a couple favorite around here, and I'm sure we'll hit one up in Iowa like usual.
November is birthday month! We'll celebrate both boys here and again in Iowa for Thanksgiving. Erica is flying home for Thanksgiving too. While, it'll be bittersweet that it will be out first turkey day without Grandma, I'm thankful my sister gets to come be a part of the holiday.
December of course brings my favorite holiday. And not only that, but a trip to California! Erica is getting married, and the boys and I (and possibly Jacob) are flying out to celebrate. Daniel is SO excited for his first airplane ride. And God bless my parents who are going to drive to St. Louis to fly out with us and help with the boys.
Those are just the big things. I know life will get super busy when school starts and I know more fun events will pop up too.
Here's to an amazing rest of the year!
Saturday, July 21, 2018
Wednesday, April 4, 2018
Things About Me
Oh hey. It's me. The girl who never gets on to blog. In my defense I had over half of a post done a few weeks ago that I had worked on for a couple of days, and somehow James managed to select all and delete it and in that one second of panic, the auto save kicked in and saved my blank post. Sigh.
I always have fun making my random list posts of fact and stories about me. So without further ado I give you more randomness from my life.
1. I lost my cell phone the other day. I spent 10 minutes looking for it. Then I found it..tucked under my arm pit.
2. I make escape plans in my head when I'm in crowded areas in case of emergency.
3. I don't like driving under bridges and I especially hate when I have to stop under them. I've always had a fear of them crashing on me. Driving over bridges I'm fine with though.
4. I have never gotten a speeding ticket, nor have I been pulled over for speeding.
5. I very rarely separate my laundry because ain't no one got time for that. It's all lies anyway. I've never had a problem. I wash new things that might bleed separate, but that's about it.
6. I used to love summer and hate winter. Then after I had kids it changed because my bodies inner thermostat broke or something. I can't tolerate heat. I makes me feel crazy.
7. I love to swim. I love to shower or take baths...but I hate being wet. Figure that one out. I don't mind being wet during those activities, but when I'm supposed to be dry I can't stand being wet. Which, is why heat bothers me so much. My body sweats and I'm damp all the time.
8. My first meal after having Daniel was a cheeseburger, fries and apple pie. I begged for a cheeseburger in between pushes.
9. My first meal after having James was chicken strips with ranch, fries and chocolate cake. I hate to wait FOREVER to get to eat. I was sick. And I was hangry.
10. I'm still holding out hope that one day they'll bring back 3D Doritos.
11. At any given time I have about 394893 thoughts running through my head.
12. My favorite holiday is Christmas and my least favorite is Valentine's Day.
13. I'm an introvert who occasionally wants to be an extrovert...but then after about 5 minutes of trying that I'm ready to crawl back into my shell.
14. Growing up I always imagined having girls. Now I can't really imagine having one.
15. For the life of me, I cannot walk in high heels. I would have a broken ankle.
16. I really want a dog. But, they're expensive and it's hard enough cleaning up after small humans.
17. Going any place new stresses me out. I'm nervous I'll be too early. Too late. Get lost. Not know where to go when I get there. Unsure where to park. Just so much stress.
18. I get really competitive when playing games.
19. I used to love horror movies. My mom would tell me how she could "feel" the evil coming from them and it used to make me roll my eyes. I can't really watch many anymore because I get that feeling too. It's very unsettling.
20.I wish I were more crafty. I'm crafty in my mind. Then I attempt to make stuff and it looks like a 6 year old made it.
21.I used to get really embarrassed by just about everything dumb that I did. I'd end up crying or muttering under my breath about how dumb I was. I've gained a lot more confidence and have embraced my awkwardness. I don't put myself down nearly as often and I've learned to just laugh things off or let them roll off my shoulders.
22. I have no idea how people survive Disney with little kids. I can barely make it through Target with kids without losing my mind.
23. A perfect "me" day would include shopping alone, having lunch with my mom and sisters, getting a pedicure, going to a movie and then staying by myself in a hotel room watching TV and eating junk food on my king size bed.
24. My adult life is basically just me winging it and not really knowing what the heck I'm doing. Thank goodness for Google. It's gotten me out of some predicaments.
25. I've actually been sticking to a new year's resolution (and it wasn't weight related as you can tell. Sigh), but it's been kind of a secret mission and I've been really enjoying it!
I always have fun making my random list posts of fact and stories about me. So without further ado I give you more randomness from my life.
1. I lost my cell phone the other day. I spent 10 minutes looking for it. Then I found it..tucked under my arm pit.
2. I make escape plans in my head when I'm in crowded areas in case of emergency.
3. I don't like driving under bridges and I especially hate when I have to stop under them. I've always had a fear of them crashing on me. Driving over bridges I'm fine with though.
4. I have never gotten a speeding ticket, nor have I been pulled over for speeding.
5. I very rarely separate my laundry because ain't no one got time for that. It's all lies anyway. I've never had a problem. I wash new things that might bleed separate, but that's about it.
6. I used to love summer and hate winter. Then after I had kids it changed because my bodies inner thermostat broke or something. I can't tolerate heat. I makes me feel crazy.
7. I love to swim. I love to shower or take baths...but I hate being wet. Figure that one out. I don't mind being wet during those activities, but when I'm supposed to be dry I can't stand being wet. Which, is why heat bothers me so much. My body sweats and I'm damp all the time.
8. My first meal after having Daniel was a cheeseburger, fries and apple pie. I begged for a cheeseburger in between pushes.
9. My first meal after having James was chicken strips with ranch, fries and chocolate cake. I hate to wait FOREVER to get to eat. I was sick. And I was hangry.
10. I'm still holding out hope that one day they'll bring back 3D Doritos.
11. At any given time I have about 394893 thoughts running through my head.
12. My favorite holiday is Christmas and my least favorite is Valentine's Day.
13. I'm an introvert who occasionally wants to be an extrovert...but then after about 5 minutes of trying that I'm ready to crawl back into my shell.
14. Growing up I always imagined having girls. Now I can't really imagine having one.
15. For the life of me, I cannot walk in high heels. I would have a broken ankle.
16. I really want a dog. But, they're expensive and it's hard enough cleaning up after small humans.
17. Going any place new stresses me out. I'm nervous I'll be too early. Too late. Get lost. Not know where to go when I get there. Unsure where to park. Just so much stress.
18. I get really competitive when playing games.
19. I used to love horror movies. My mom would tell me how she could "feel" the evil coming from them and it used to make me roll my eyes. I can't really watch many anymore because I get that feeling too. It's very unsettling.
20.I wish I were more crafty. I'm crafty in my mind. Then I attempt to make stuff and it looks like a 6 year old made it.
21.I used to get really embarrassed by just about everything dumb that I did. I'd end up crying or muttering under my breath about how dumb I was. I've gained a lot more confidence and have embraced my awkwardness. I don't put myself down nearly as often and I've learned to just laugh things off or let them roll off my shoulders.
22. I have no idea how people survive Disney with little kids. I can barely make it through Target with kids without losing my mind.
23. A perfect "me" day would include shopping alone, having lunch with my mom and sisters, getting a pedicure, going to a movie and then staying by myself in a hotel room watching TV and eating junk food on my king size bed.
24. My adult life is basically just me winging it and not really knowing what the heck I'm doing. Thank goodness for Google. It's gotten me out of some predicaments.
25. I've actually been sticking to a new year's resolution (and it wasn't weight related as you can tell. Sigh), but it's been kind of a secret mission and I've been really enjoying it!
Monday, February 19, 2018
Jesus Take the Wheel--- The Tale of the Exploding Tire
Today is another one of those days where I am thankful for God's protection over my family.
Daniel had earned a trip to Chuck E Cheese last fall from his behavior chart. We still hadn't gone, and we finally decided that since there was no school today, that we would take the boys!
I woke up to a big crash of thunder and smiled because I love a good storm. I stayed in bed until almost 9, and then got up and ready to go.
I was driving. We had almost reached Rochester when I heard the loudest "BANG!" and felt the van trying to move in its own direction. I knew immediately that we had blown a tire. The speed limit was 65, which is exactly the speed I was going. I amazingly stayed calm. All I could think was, "Don't slam on the brakes. Don't slam on the brakes!" Quite honestly that would normally be my first instinct, which leads me to believe that voice was the God or an angel. I was able to safely get us pulled off to the side of the highway. Jacob turned the hazards on, and I put the car in park and took a deep breath. My hands were shaking and my heart was pounding, but we were safe!
I made Jacob call roadside assistance because I'm generally on the struggle bus when I have to talk to people who don't speak English very well. About that time, I see a white SUV pulling onto the shoulder. It was a state trooper. He came over and was chatting with me, as Jacob is trying to talk. Jacob ended up passing me the phone, which was hilarious because the lady had a thick southern accent and he couldn't understand her...but I totally could! Daniel was busy telling the officer that we were supposed to be going to Chuck E Cheese and James is yelling about how the tire "blowed up!"
Once we knew help was on the way, the trooper left. He offered to shuttle us the 2 miles to Rochester, but it seemed pointless because I would've had to move car seats into his vehicle. He was very nice though and told us if any problems came up to call 911.
Not much later our roadside assistance came. He was able to put the donut on for us and then I slowly drove the back roads to WalMart in Springfield. Since it was almost lunch time and there's a McDonald's in WalMart we grabbed lunch and by the time we finished a wandered a few minutes, the van was ready. Sadly, my bumper needs repaired, but honestly it could've been a million times worse, and now I have some lovely duct tape holding it on.
We finally made it to Chuck E Cheese, where the boys had a blast. We weren't there super long because it's easy to blow through tokens, but neither one complained when they ran out. Then they counted tickets and redeemed their prizes. For the low price of $20 they got, about $2.00 worth of crap. Ha! But, really I think playing the games is the exciting part anyway!
On the way home the bumper flapped in the breeze as I prayed it wouldn't fall off. Then the tire pressure light went off...so I have to get that figured out tomorrow too.
I made the boys rest this afternoon when we got home even though it was late afternoon. I needed a break!
At one point Daniel commented that today wasn't how he planned it to be. I asked him, "Did we crash or did anyone get hurt? Nope! God protected us and we're still going to be able to do what we promised, so I'd say it's still a good day!" (I was channeling a little Jack Pearson in that speech.)
And I KNOW we didn't wreck, but we could have, so I'll just plug this again. Car seats saves lives, and I think if anything worse had happened that they still would have been okay!
Here's hoping for a very uneventful rest of the week...no year. Way too much has happened since the start of 2018!
Daniel had earned a trip to Chuck E Cheese last fall from his behavior chart. We still hadn't gone, and we finally decided that since there was no school today, that we would take the boys!
I woke up to a big crash of thunder and smiled because I love a good storm. I stayed in bed until almost 9, and then got up and ready to go.
I was driving. We had almost reached Rochester when I heard the loudest "BANG!" and felt the van trying to move in its own direction. I knew immediately that we had blown a tire. The speed limit was 65, which is exactly the speed I was going. I amazingly stayed calm. All I could think was, "Don't slam on the brakes. Don't slam on the brakes!" Quite honestly that would normally be my first instinct, which leads me to believe that voice was the God or an angel. I was able to safely get us pulled off to the side of the highway. Jacob turned the hazards on, and I put the car in park and took a deep breath. My hands were shaking and my heart was pounding, but we were safe!
I made Jacob call roadside assistance because I'm generally on the struggle bus when I have to talk to people who don't speak English very well. About that time, I see a white SUV pulling onto the shoulder. It was a state trooper. He came over and was chatting with me, as Jacob is trying to talk. Jacob ended up passing me the phone, which was hilarious because the lady had a thick southern accent and he couldn't understand her...but I totally could! Daniel was busy telling the officer that we were supposed to be going to Chuck E Cheese and James is yelling about how the tire "blowed up!"
Once we knew help was on the way, the trooper left. He offered to shuttle us the 2 miles to Rochester, but it seemed pointless because I would've had to move car seats into his vehicle. He was very nice though and told us if any problems came up to call 911.
Not much later our roadside assistance came. He was able to put the donut on for us and then I slowly drove the back roads to WalMart in Springfield. Since it was almost lunch time and there's a McDonald's in WalMart we grabbed lunch and by the time we finished a wandered a few minutes, the van was ready. Sadly, my bumper needs repaired, but honestly it could've been a million times worse, and now I have some lovely duct tape holding it on.
We finally made it to Chuck E Cheese, where the boys had a blast. We weren't there super long because it's easy to blow through tokens, but neither one complained when they ran out. Then they counted tickets and redeemed their prizes. For the low price of $20 they got, about $2.00 worth of crap. Ha! But, really I think playing the games is the exciting part anyway!
On the way home the bumper flapped in the breeze as I prayed it wouldn't fall off. Then the tire pressure light went off...so I have to get that figured out tomorrow too.
I made the boys rest this afternoon when we got home even though it was late afternoon. I needed a break!
At one point Daniel commented that today wasn't how he planned it to be. I asked him, "Did we crash or did anyone get hurt? Nope! God protected us and we're still going to be able to do what we promised, so I'd say it's still a good day!" (I was channeling a little Jack Pearson in that speech.)
And I KNOW we didn't wreck, but we could have, so I'll just plug this again. Car seats saves lives, and I think if anything worse had happened that they still would have been okay!
Here's hoping for a very uneventful rest of the week...no year. Way too much has happened since the start of 2018!
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Remembering Grandma S.
This is a hard post, but one that I have to write. I'm sure I'll cry as I write, which is therapeutic. I did the same thing almost 6 years ago when my grandpa passed away. Only this time, it's my grandma. It's a little after noon and I've been sitting with this news now for about 5 hours. It came as a complete shock. We're talking about the stubborn woman who overcame a massive stroke. Last night she went to the hospital as precaution. She had a fever and a cough. Tested negative for influenza, but they did find pneumonia. Pneumonia.The woman was tough as nails. She was going to be fine. A few days in the hospital and she'd be back to playing Bingo and sassing the nurses at her assisted living home.
When my mom's number came up this morning, I knew. I knew that she didn't get home until 2:30 this morning. I knew she'd be sleeping if everything were okay. I knew she wouldn't call me if it was something minor. I knew Grandma was gone. Yet, hearing the words come out of my mom's mouth was still a shock. I walked out to the kitchen, sat on the floor and cried while we talked. I had to call my sisters, which wasn't easy. Even as I sit here now, we've all been messaging each other throughout the day. There are still some close relatives who don't know yet, so I can't even post this until later, but I needed to write. My emotions are coming and going. I'm okay. Then I'm crying. Then I'm calm or in a fog. I had a good sob in the shower. I've laughed too.
Right now she's with God. She's with my Grandpa again. She can walk. She can use her paralyzed arm again. And she's probably trying to figure out when the next Bingo game is being held.
Memories with Grandma S. (in no particular order.)
1. Grandma LOVED to rearrange her living room. Like, seriously. Every time I was there she had either moved the whole living room set around, or she would move it while I was there. Same went for the bedrooms.
2. I loved to spend the night at their house, but especially on Wednesday nights in the summers because Grandma was an avid garage-saler and the big garage sale day in Cedar Rapids was Thursday. She'd have the paper all spread out and circled all the ones to hit up. Then grandpa would drive us around for what felt like hours and as we searched for treasure. My favorite thing she bought me was Twinkie Soap. Ha!
3. My favorite book at their house was "The Monster at the End of This Book" and she'd read it to me every time I was there.
4. I had 3 favorite games to play with her at their house and I always played them in a certain order. Tom and Jerry, Winnie the Pooh and then Candy Land. I always cheated at Winnie the Pooh, but she never called me on it. I thought I was being sneaky, but as I grew up I realized just how obvious I was!
5. Grandma is the reason I am terrified of big dolls or dolls that talk. She had a WIDE selection of just about every horror movie ever on cable. She'd tape them and then catalog all of her VHS tapes and I was allowed to watch whatever I wanted. Which is why I picked a movie called "Child's Play" when I was 5 years old. Who let's their grandchild watch a movie about a killer doll? My grandma, that's who! I also watched Friday the 13th, Nightmare on Elm Street and Gremlins (which was my favorite).
6. All food was allowed at Grandma and Grandpa's house. The more junk food they could shove in me the better. (I realize now that as awesome as I thought that was back then, it contributed to my years of being a binge eater). But, if you wanted a bowl of ice cream, you didn't get one scoop. You got heaping PILES of ice cream. She always bought ice cream and then stored it in Rubbermaid containers. Not sure why. Probably to prevent freezer burn. Regardless, one time she served me ice cream with plastic chunks because the container broke and she didn't realize it.
7. She also tried to kill me once by accidentally putting cayenne pepper on the deviled eggs she made me instead of paprika and blew up the macaroni on Christmas Day.
8. Other favorite foods that were ALWAYS in stock were: spaghetti oh's, chicken noodle soup, Reese's PB cups, Little Debbie cupcakes (Devil Squares to be exact...and if you don't eat those things without freezing them, you're not doing it right), Cap'n Crunch and Cheetos.
9. Grandma loved to watch the Chicago Bulls with Grandpa and Bing Bang Boom (wrestling). Whenever I spent the night I'd watch with them.
10. I always watched game shows with grandma. Supermarket Sweep, Shop til You Drop, Press Your Luck (or Whammy! as she called it) and of course Wheel of Fortune.
11. When I was little and Grandpa still worked at night, I'd sit up with grandma and watch Unsolved Mysteries with her. Robert Stack's voice still creeps me out, and I was really scared of aliens there for awhile!
12. I'll miss the ways she said things. "I need to get the clothes in the warsh!" "I'm mopping the floor in the keenchin".
13. Oh grandma in the kitchen. She loved to bake. She made huge batches of monster cookies in a giant turkey roasting pan. And she'd bang pots and pans around in the kitchen so much that it drove grandpa crazy. Sounds like that always remind me of her.
14. Halloween. Grandma always had a bag of candy waiting for us. Reese's, KitKats and Carefree Bubble Gum. She'd put them all in a Ziplock bag and we never had the heart to tell her that the gum flavor always seeped into the candy and made it taste gross. It also didn't stop us from still eating it.
15. I'll miss the way she could never get our names right on the first try. Er--, Ken---,Rachel!
16. She was like the spy of the neighborhood and had nicknames for people like, "Oogie, Dingbat and Loverboy.
17. After she had her stroke and was at West Ridge we went to see her. She wasn't talking well yet and pretty quiet. Mom was "bossing" her around and I whispered to grandma to slap mom the next time she got bossy. The smile that spread over her face was priceless.
18. She was a favorite resident at RidgeView. She had the nickname, "The General" and she sassed and joked with all of the staff.
19. I will always remember her laugh. It was more of a cackle and the greatest thing ever when she really got going.
20. The people of Cedar Rapids are now safe because that women ran over more people with shopping carts and her wheelchair than you could probably count.
21. I'll always remember digging through park trash cans with her because she took back all of the old pop cans to get her nickles!
22. Going to Bever Park together. We'd always go to the monkey house first and then the rest of the zoo. But, she ALWAYS let me go back to the monkey house again before we left. Grandpa would go sit in the car to wait and Grandma would take me back in to see them.
23. I'll miss her random outfits. Bright pants and shorts, bright flowery shirt. No bra. She was living the life, ya'll.
24. She loved her cat Sugar more than life.
25. One time Erica and I stole the wishbone from the turkey and weren't going to let Kendra try. Grandma chased us down the hallway about pounded on the bathroom door demanding that we be nice to Kendra.
Grandma S. wasn't your typical lovey dovey grandma that would dote all over you, but she was the best Grandma to me. She loved us and I know that she had fun spending time with us as kids. I'll forever cherish all of the memories I have with her and thank God for all of the years I got with her.
I love you and will miss you, Grandma. See you again one day!
When my mom's number came up this morning, I knew. I knew that she didn't get home until 2:30 this morning. I knew she'd be sleeping if everything were okay. I knew she wouldn't call me if it was something minor. I knew Grandma was gone. Yet, hearing the words come out of my mom's mouth was still a shock. I walked out to the kitchen, sat on the floor and cried while we talked. I had to call my sisters, which wasn't easy. Even as I sit here now, we've all been messaging each other throughout the day. There are still some close relatives who don't know yet, so I can't even post this until later, but I needed to write. My emotions are coming and going. I'm okay. Then I'm crying. Then I'm calm or in a fog. I had a good sob in the shower. I've laughed too.
Right now she's with God. She's with my Grandpa again. She can walk. She can use her paralyzed arm again. And she's probably trying to figure out when the next Bingo game is being held.
Memories with Grandma S. (in no particular order.)
1. Grandma LOVED to rearrange her living room. Like, seriously. Every time I was there she had either moved the whole living room set around, or she would move it while I was there. Same went for the bedrooms.
2. I loved to spend the night at their house, but especially on Wednesday nights in the summers because Grandma was an avid garage-saler and the big garage sale day in Cedar Rapids was Thursday. She'd have the paper all spread out and circled all the ones to hit up. Then grandpa would drive us around for what felt like hours and as we searched for treasure. My favorite thing she bought me was Twinkie Soap. Ha!
3. My favorite book at their house was "The Monster at the End of This Book" and she'd read it to me every time I was there.
4. I had 3 favorite games to play with her at their house and I always played them in a certain order. Tom and Jerry, Winnie the Pooh and then Candy Land. I always cheated at Winnie the Pooh, but she never called me on it. I thought I was being sneaky, but as I grew up I realized just how obvious I was!
5. Grandma is the reason I am terrified of big dolls or dolls that talk. She had a WIDE selection of just about every horror movie ever on cable. She'd tape them and then catalog all of her VHS tapes and I was allowed to watch whatever I wanted. Which is why I picked a movie called "Child's Play" when I was 5 years old. Who let's their grandchild watch a movie about a killer doll? My grandma, that's who! I also watched Friday the 13th, Nightmare on Elm Street and Gremlins (which was my favorite).
6. All food was allowed at Grandma and Grandpa's house. The more junk food they could shove in me the better. (I realize now that as awesome as I thought that was back then, it contributed to my years of being a binge eater). But, if you wanted a bowl of ice cream, you didn't get one scoop. You got heaping PILES of ice cream. She always bought ice cream and then stored it in Rubbermaid containers. Not sure why. Probably to prevent freezer burn. Regardless, one time she served me ice cream with plastic chunks because the container broke and she didn't realize it.
7. She also tried to kill me once by accidentally putting cayenne pepper on the deviled eggs she made me instead of paprika and blew up the macaroni on Christmas Day.
8. Other favorite foods that were ALWAYS in stock were: spaghetti oh's, chicken noodle soup, Reese's PB cups, Little Debbie cupcakes (Devil Squares to be exact...and if you don't eat those things without freezing them, you're not doing it right), Cap'n Crunch and Cheetos.
9. Grandma loved to watch the Chicago Bulls with Grandpa and Bing Bang Boom (wrestling). Whenever I spent the night I'd watch with them.
10. I always watched game shows with grandma. Supermarket Sweep, Shop til You Drop, Press Your Luck (or Whammy! as she called it) and of course Wheel of Fortune.
11. When I was little and Grandpa still worked at night, I'd sit up with grandma and watch Unsolved Mysteries with her. Robert Stack's voice still creeps me out, and I was really scared of aliens there for awhile!
12. I'll miss the ways she said things. "I need to get the clothes in the warsh!" "I'm mopping the floor in the keenchin".
13. Oh grandma in the kitchen. She loved to bake. She made huge batches of monster cookies in a giant turkey roasting pan. And she'd bang pots and pans around in the kitchen so much that it drove grandpa crazy. Sounds like that always remind me of her.
14. Halloween. Grandma always had a bag of candy waiting for us. Reese's, KitKats and Carefree Bubble Gum. She'd put them all in a Ziplock bag and we never had the heart to tell her that the gum flavor always seeped into the candy and made it taste gross. It also didn't stop us from still eating it.
15. I'll miss the way she could never get our names right on the first try. Er--, Ken---,Rachel!
16. She was like the spy of the neighborhood and had nicknames for people like, "Oogie, Dingbat and Loverboy.
17. After she had her stroke and was at West Ridge we went to see her. She wasn't talking well yet and pretty quiet. Mom was "bossing" her around and I whispered to grandma to slap mom the next time she got bossy. The smile that spread over her face was priceless.
18. She was a favorite resident at RidgeView. She had the nickname, "The General" and she sassed and joked with all of the staff.
19. I will always remember her laugh. It was more of a cackle and the greatest thing ever when she really got going.
20. The people of Cedar Rapids are now safe because that women ran over more people with shopping carts and her wheelchair than you could probably count.
21. I'll always remember digging through park trash cans with her because she took back all of the old pop cans to get her nickles!
22. Going to Bever Park together. We'd always go to the monkey house first and then the rest of the zoo. But, she ALWAYS let me go back to the monkey house again before we left. Grandpa would go sit in the car to wait and Grandma would take me back in to see them.
23. I'll miss her random outfits. Bright pants and shorts, bright flowery shirt. No bra. She was living the life, ya'll.
24. She loved her cat Sugar more than life.
25. One time Erica and I stole the wishbone from the turkey and weren't going to let Kendra try. Grandma chased us down the hallway about pounded on the bathroom door demanding that we be nice to Kendra.
Grandma S. wasn't your typical lovey dovey grandma that would dote all over you, but she was the best Grandma to me. She loved us and I know that she had fun spending time with us as kids. I'll forever cherish all of the memories I have with her and thank God for all of the years I got with her.
I love you and will miss you, Grandma. See you again one day!
Monday, January 1, 2018
Highs and Lows of 2017
2017 is officially over and now we start over fresh. A new canvas to make our mark on.
This past year had it's ups and downs just like every year. It wasn't awful. It wasn't the best year ever. None the less, we're left with its memories.
Let's start with the lows, to get those out of the way.
*We were hit with 2 or 3 rounds of the stomach flu over the course of the year. The worst of it seemed to rear its head in the middle of the night, which made for some awful nights for this mama.
*During one of the stomach bugs, we were supposed to go cheer Kendra on in her marathon in St. Louis. James and I were able to go, but for a shortened time. The marathon day was a disaster of epic proportions. Kendra's goal was to run a sub 4 marathon. She ended up taking over 5 hours, which still...is amazing because I would die after 1 mile, so I was super proud of her. In the meantime though, mom fell in a pothole and had a crater in her elbow. She woke me up to help her, and I passed out and hit my head on the closet door at the hotel. We watched Kendra at the halfway point and she was ready to quit. She hated me for a bit because I wouldn't let her quit. Mom ended up at urgent care for stitches. James was melting down because crumbs were on his fruit snacks. I had to walk from the middle of downtown with James, down to the arch to cheer on Kendra at the finish. On top of that we ended up having a bad supper experience. But we still laugh about all of it to this day!
*In April or May our sewer started backing up. The same lines that were replaced to the tune of $6000 2.5 years prior! I had to deal with plumbers. I had to make phone calls and stay on top of everything so that things would be repaired. Thankfully, we got it all done for free, but it still sucks to see your yard torn up again!
*The passing of Jacob's Grandma Sally. We were able to go and be with her and say goodbye, but it's never an easy thing.
*November 4th. One of the worst days ever. Nothing prepares you to get a call that your husband and one of your kids were involved in a car accident. Then as you're scrambling to find child care, you hear the sirens and know exactly where they're headed. Thankfully, everyone was okay. I will forever be thankful to God and to our car seat which helped Daniel walk away without a scratch.
Now onto the highs!
*We were challenged at church this past year to follow God's direction and take our "next steps", whatever those might be. I knew right away what my first 2 steps would be, but I felt like there was maybe more. My first step was to join Calvary. So one of the first Sundays of the new year I became a member of the church. That's the first time I've joined a church since 2001 when we joined Valley View in Cedar Rapids.
My second step was to get involved in the children's ministries. I talked with Carlos and ended up in a teaching position in the 4-5 year old room. Those kiddos are such blessings and I love each and every one of them.
My third step didn't come until September or October. For a long time I had a longing to sing on our worship team, but I was intimidated by the other amazing singers. Finally one Sunday, something Pastor Steve said in his message hit me and I knew that I was supposed to do this. I met with Steffan and tried out...which was scary for me! I've gotten to sing twice and loved it. Can't wait to do more this year!
*Getting to unexpectedly take Daniel to his first Cardinals game with Brenda. Due to a rain out, Jacob and Kent weren't able to go back the next day, so my amazing friend Leslie watched James all day so that we could take Daniel. We had such a fun time and made lots of memories!
*Going to my 2nd Garth Brooks concert. It was amazing. I went alone, but had such a great time. I still like to believe he waved back at me when I waved to him. Don't try to burst my bubble. You can't make me think any different!
*Watching Daniel graduate preschool and start kindergarten. Even if I bawled my eyes out at both milestones, I was very proud of him!
*Road trips to Iowa and a vacation in Indiana which included zoos, a children's museums, a visit with Great Mimi T. in Chariton, parks, rocket launches and just time with family.
*A friend that loaned me her van for 2 weeks after our's was totaled. A complete blessing since it would have been costly to rent a car for that long! And then finding a van to buy just when we needed it.
So, here's to a brand new year and brand new memories....which so far have included my kids trying to kill each other, and my mom starting to lose her mind. But, a high for me is that Kendra is folding my kid's clothes while I type this. :)
This past year had it's ups and downs just like every year. It wasn't awful. It wasn't the best year ever. None the less, we're left with its memories.
Let's start with the lows, to get those out of the way.
*We were hit with 2 or 3 rounds of the stomach flu over the course of the year. The worst of it seemed to rear its head in the middle of the night, which made for some awful nights for this mama.
*During one of the stomach bugs, we were supposed to go cheer Kendra on in her marathon in St. Louis. James and I were able to go, but for a shortened time. The marathon day was a disaster of epic proportions. Kendra's goal was to run a sub 4 marathon. She ended up taking over 5 hours, which still...is amazing because I would die after 1 mile, so I was super proud of her. In the meantime though, mom fell in a pothole and had a crater in her elbow. She woke me up to help her, and I passed out and hit my head on the closet door at the hotel. We watched Kendra at the halfway point and she was ready to quit. She hated me for a bit because I wouldn't let her quit. Mom ended up at urgent care for stitches. James was melting down because crumbs were on his fruit snacks. I had to walk from the middle of downtown with James, down to the arch to cheer on Kendra at the finish. On top of that we ended up having a bad supper experience. But we still laugh about all of it to this day!
*In April or May our sewer started backing up. The same lines that were replaced to the tune of $6000 2.5 years prior! I had to deal with plumbers. I had to make phone calls and stay on top of everything so that things would be repaired. Thankfully, we got it all done for free, but it still sucks to see your yard torn up again!
*The passing of Jacob's Grandma Sally. We were able to go and be with her and say goodbye, but it's never an easy thing.
*November 4th. One of the worst days ever. Nothing prepares you to get a call that your husband and one of your kids were involved in a car accident. Then as you're scrambling to find child care, you hear the sirens and know exactly where they're headed. Thankfully, everyone was okay. I will forever be thankful to God and to our car seat which helped Daniel walk away without a scratch.
Now onto the highs!
*We were challenged at church this past year to follow God's direction and take our "next steps", whatever those might be. I knew right away what my first 2 steps would be, but I felt like there was maybe more. My first step was to join Calvary. So one of the first Sundays of the new year I became a member of the church. That's the first time I've joined a church since 2001 when we joined Valley View in Cedar Rapids.
My second step was to get involved in the children's ministries. I talked with Carlos and ended up in a teaching position in the 4-5 year old room. Those kiddos are such blessings and I love each and every one of them.
My third step didn't come until September or October. For a long time I had a longing to sing on our worship team, but I was intimidated by the other amazing singers. Finally one Sunday, something Pastor Steve said in his message hit me and I knew that I was supposed to do this. I met with Steffan and tried out...which was scary for me! I've gotten to sing twice and loved it. Can't wait to do more this year!
*Getting to unexpectedly take Daniel to his first Cardinals game with Brenda. Due to a rain out, Jacob and Kent weren't able to go back the next day, so my amazing friend Leslie watched James all day so that we could take Daniel. We had such a fun time and made lots of memories!
*Going to my 2nd Garth Brooks concert. It was amazing. I went alone, but had such a great time. I still like to believe he waved back at me when I waved to him. Don't try to burst my bubble. You can't make me think any different!
*Watching Daniel graduate preschool and start kindergarten. Even if I bawled my eyes out at both milestones, I was very proud of him!
*Road trips to Iowa and a vacation in Indiana which included zoos, a children's museums, a visit with Great Mimi T. in Chariton, parks, rocket launches and just time with family.
*A friend that loaned me her van for 2 weeks after our's was totaled. A complete blessing since it would have been costly to rent a car for that long! And then finding a van to buy just when we needed it.
So, here's to a brand new year and brand new memories....which so far have included my kids trying to kill each other, and my mom starting to lose her mind. But, a high for me is that Kendra is folding my kid's clothes while I type this. :)
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